mal - 2004-12-31 03:22:02
this is a beautiful, beautiful entry. thank you for sharing it.

lizardek - 2004-12-31 05:38:28
Amen. Thank you for putting EXACTLY into words what I've been feeling but wasn't able to write.

Loody - 2004-12-31 07:17:22
Thanks for your great post. I have really enjoyed reading your blog since I found it earlier this year. I hope 2005 is a great year for you and your family and the wolf! L x

otter - 2004-12-31 09:13:19
Beautiful! I'm so honored to have you as a friend. Now I'm going to go sniffle in the bathroom.

roz - 2004-12-31 10:58:08
So well put and expresses how many of us our feeling. You have a wise hubby over there with you. I think it's a matter of feeling disrespectful if we don't submerge ourselves in the pain. But I have to keep reminding myself that none of us our immune from tragedy and so must continue to savor every minute of the life that we have. Blessings to you in the new year. I'm very new to this blogging and I so enjoy reading yours.

gnostraeh - 2004-12-31 11:37:32
Well put dear!! Very moving and intelligent. You touched and expressed some of what I have been feeling and wrestling with and brought it to beautiful and smart resolution. Thank you.

janee - 2004-12-31 12:08:02
Great post! Your hubby sounds like the sensitive, smart, and supportive guy too. So much more important than mere handsome. :-)

breana - 2004-12-31 13:52:43
You should do what's right for you. You may not want a blog attached to your professional portfolio. Or, you may want to make a clean break of it and have your own place, all for you.

jingles - 2004-12-31 13:59:34
My two cents: Move the blog with the rest of the site, but make sure it's separate from the professional site...... Thanks for your well wishing. Ditto ditto ditto. I hope your New Year is happy and that 2005 is your best year yet. Take care, wee! :)

Shayananna - 2004-12-31 17:48:44
Your post was SO on the money, and had perfect timing - I just spent a chunk of yesterday hashing out with a girlfriend what does it mean to give enough? How do you draw that line? We finally had to decide that it's like everything else related to being an adult - it's a grey area that has to be negotiated constantly, and based on each time it comes up, you may have a different answer - but that just asking the question means that you are in the right space (at least roughly) - you are caring and trying to do the right thing, even if you aren't sure what it is... --------------- Mundane stuff: I've been wondering the same thing about a separate site and how to integrate the blog, and what I decided to do was actually keep the blog on the "free" site, but put all non blog or BFL stuff to the domain - that way I can keep the mental separation, and people don't have to update links, but I can create menu items to make switching between them more or less transparent... Don't know if that's where you want to be, but it's a thought to chew on.

Louise - 2005-01-02 13:20:40
Your post says exactly what I've been trying to hash out for myself for the past week. Thank you. Oh, and I'd love to be added to your links, but only if you actually read my site-- no worries if you don't :)

amber - 2005-01-03 16:09:35
You are so right, wee. I ache for all of those people, and then I look at my daughter and thank the stars for everyone and everything that I have. :}

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